This week's series on the Iceberg Theory delves into visible behaviors that serve as protective walls, indicating underlying issues such as communication barriers, anger outbursts, and low self-confidence. Children or Adults who've experienced mistreatment often internalize a belief in inherent flaws, leading to coping mechanisms like self-sabotage. The root cause lies beneath the surface—a submerged part of the iceberg. 

To support those affected by maltreatment, it's crucial to connect behavior with negative experiences. Using "I wonder..." statements aids in understanding, allowing individuals to verbalize or express non-verbally, providing insights into resonant statements.